tadpoledancer:

YOU ARE BEING SAD AND YOU DESERVE TO BE NOT BEING SAD. 

SO! HERE IS THING!

okay first check out these tags!: :D :D :D / faith / happy thingshugs / kissesmbm / positive mental attitudepositivity / really brilliant thingsreally cute things / really good posts / x 

and these blogs!: bodyposifitness / dailyreasontobehappy / hopeloverandomforwhenyouneedhope / thenarcissismgame

also here’s that emergency compliment generator and these two playlists of happy songs! :D :D

and if you still need cheering up - or just need a distraction - go watch qi or adventure time or listen to cabin pressure (because it is like 100% impossible to be sad when listening to cabin pressure) :D also this short film because it’s absolutely adorable! and here’s two straight hours of ‘scenes from a hat’ from whose line. :D

and compassionpit is a really good website if you ever need to talk to someone about stuff, or if you would like to help somebody else out with their own problems! and feel free to ask me anything, i’m always happy to talk about anything you would like to talk about! :D

so. yeah! i hope you have a nice day!! :D :D :D

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averymiacrissmas:

this might not be the same for you as it is for me but

repeat after me:

  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA
  • YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR GPA

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Your Daily Reminder That

kaylkat:

  • your limitations are real and don’t make you worthless no matter how low they are or how high you want them to be
  • it’s okay to want your limitations to be higher but
  • you and your mental/emotional/physical health are important
  • taking time off from responsibilities and obligations so you can look after yourself does not make you a bad person
  • doing nothing all day but things you like & make you happy doesn’t mean you’re lazy or shirking your work
  • it’s a form of self care
  • you are worth looking after
  • you are worth looking after
  • you are fucking worth looking after

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The snake enters your dreams through paintings:
this one, of a formal garden
in which there are always three:

the thin man with the green-white skin
that marks him vegetarian
and the woman with a swayback and hard breasts
that look stuck on

and the snake, vertical and with a head
that’s face-coloured and haired like a woman’s.

Everyone looks unhappy,
even the few zoo animals, stippled with sun,
even the angel who’s like a slab
of flaming laundry, hovering
up there with his sword of fire,
unable as yet to strike.

There’s no love here.
Maybe it’s the boredom.

And that’s no apple but a heart
torn out of someone
in this myth gone suddenly Aztec.

This is the possibility of death
the snake is offering:
death upon death squeezed together,
a blood snowball.

To devour it is to fall out
of the still unending noon
to a hard ground with a straight horizon

and you are no longer the
idea of a body but a body,
you slide down into your body as into hot mud.

You feel the membranes of disease
close over your head, and history
occurs to you and space enfolds
you in its armies, in its nights, and you
must learn to see in darkness.

Here you can praise the light,
having so little of it:

it’s the death you carry in you
red and captured, that makes the world
shine for you
as it never did before.

This is how you learn prayer.

Love is choosing, the snake said.
The kingdom of god is within you
because you ate it.

Margaret Atwood, Quattrocento (via ilvalentinos)

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If a writer falls in love with you,
you can never die.
Unknown  (via wryer)

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Birthday

bifurious:

At 12 years old I started bleeding with the moon
and beating up boys who dreamed of becoming astronauts.
I fought with my knuckles white as stars,
and left bruises the shape of Salem.
There are things we know by heart,
and things we don’t. 
 
At 13 my friend Jen tried to teach me how to blow rings of smoke.
I’d watch the nicotine rising from her lips like halos,
but I could never make dying beautiful.
The sky didn’t fill with colors the night I convinced myself
veins are kite strings you can only cut free.
I suppose I love this life,
 
in spite of my clenched fist.
 
I open my palm and my lifelines look like branches from an Aspen tree,
and there are songbirds perched on the tips of my fingers,
and I wonder if Beethoven held his breath
the first time his fingers touched the keys
the same way a soldier holds his breath
the first time his finger clicks the trigger.
We all have different reasons for forgetting to breathe.
 
But my lungs remember
the day my mother took my hand and placed it on her belly
and told me the symphony beneath was my baby sister’s heartbeat.
And I knew life would tremble
like the first tear on a prison guard’s hardened cheek,
like a prayer on a dying man’s lips,
like a vet holding a full bottle of whisky like an empty gun in a war zone…
just take me      just take me
 
Sometimes the scales themselves weigh far too much,
the heaviness of forever balancing blue sky with red blood.
We were all born on days when too many people died in terrible ways,
but you still have to call it a birthday.
You still have to fall for the prettiest girl on the playground at recess
and hope she knows you can hit a baseball
further than any boy in the whole third grade
 
and I’ve been running for home
through the windpipe of a man who sings
while his hands playing washboard with a spoon
on a street corner in New Orleans
where every boarded up window is still painted with the words
We’re Coming Back
like a promise to the ocean
that we will always keep moving towards the music,
the way Basquait slept in a cardboard box to be closer to the rain.
 
Beauty, catch me on your tongue. 
Thunder, clap us open.
The pupils in our eyes were not born to hide beneath their desks.
Tonight lay us down to rest in the Arizona dessert,
then wake us washing the feet of pregnant women
who climbed across the border with their bellies aimed towards the sun.
I know a thousand things louder than a soldier’s gun.
I know the heartbeat of his mother.
 
Don’t cover your ears, Love.
Don’t cover your ears, Life.
There is a boy writing poems in Central Park
and as he writes he moves
and his bones become the bars of Mandela’s jail cell stretching apart,
and there are men playing chess in the December cold
who can’t tell if the breath rising from the board
is their opponents or their own,
and there’s a woman on the stairwell of the subway
swearing she can hear Niagara Falls from her rooftop in Brooklyn,
and I’m remembering how Niagara Falls is a city overrun
with strip malls and traffic and vendors
and one incredibly brave river that makes it all worth it. 
 
Y’all, I know this world is far from perfect.
I am not the type to mistake a streetlight for the moon.
I know our wounds are deep as the Atlantic.
But every ocean has a shoreline
and every shoreline has a tide
that is constantly returning
to wake the songbirds in our hands, 
to wake the music in our bones,
to place one fearless kiss on the mouth of that brave river
that has to run through the center of our hearts
to find its way home.


-Andrea Gibson

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Horseradish: Bitter Truths You Can’t Avoid, Lemony Snicket

Horseradish: Bitter Truths You Can’t Avoid, Lemony Snicket

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Here’s what our parents never taught us:

You will stay up on your rooftop until sunlight peels away the husk of the moon,
chainsmoking cigarettes and reading Baudelaire, and
you will learn that you only ever want to fall in love with someone
who will stay up to watch the sun rise with you.

You will fall in love with train rides, and sooner or later you will
realize that nowhere seems like home anymore.

A woman will kiss you and you’ll think her lips are two petals
rubbing against your mouth.

You will not tell anyone that you liked it.
It’s okay.
It is beautiful to love humans in a world where love is a metaphor for lust.

You can leave if you want, with only your skin as a carry-on.

All you need is a twenty in your pocket and a bus ticket.
All you need is someone on the other end of the map, thinking about the supple
curves of your body, to guide you to a home that stretches out for miles
and miles on end.

You will lie to everyone you love.
They will love you anyways.

One day you’ll wake up and realize that you are too big for your own skin.

Molt.
Don’t be afraid.

Your body is a house where the shutters blow in and out
against the windowpane.

You are a hurricane-prone area.
The glass will break through often.

But it’s okay. I promise.

Remember,
a stranger once told you that the breeze
here is something worth writing poems about.

“Here’s What Our Parents Never Taught Us,” Shinji Moon (via commovente)

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Fantasy is hardly an escape from reality. It’s a way of understanding it.
Lloyd Alexander
From Tusen år av fantasy – Resan till Mordor by Bo Eriksson (via mirroir)

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